{"id":19988,"date":"2017-01-12T21:43:35","date_gmt":"2017-01-13T01:43:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/?p=19988"},"modified":"2017-10-21T20:44:52","modified_gmt":"2017-10-22T01:44:52","slug":"the-other-side","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/the-other-side\/","title":{"rendered":"See Things From the Other Side"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-17997\" src=\"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Home1-e1485740299924.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"715\" height=\"425\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Home1-e1485740299924.jpg 715w, https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Home1-e1485740299924-300x178.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 715px) 100vw, 715px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I cried when my kids went back to school this week (I was going holiday stir crazy, but then bawled when they went back!) and I teared up again during the President&#8217;s Farewell. I know everyone has different opinions, and feels this way and that about immigration, healthcare, etc. but that aside &#8211; <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Friends, \u00a0I adore the Obamas<\/span>. I think they love each other and are a team. They have such a cute family! <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">I felt the exact same way about the Bushes<\/span>! And don&#8217;t we all want that? Even if you feel differently on another issue?<\/p>\n<p>And don&#8217;t even get me started on First Lady Michelle! To have a Harvard-educated, African American lawyer, dancing on late night, who also inspires women all around the world to get an education &#8230;well it just has meant so much to show my girls.<\/p>\n<p>The beauty and privilege of being a parent is you put someone above yourself for the first time in a way you never have. For me, I figuratively stepped into another&#8217;s skin. When I became a mother, I left the blonde, blue eyed world of Loralee and saw the world from my beautifully dark skinned, darker eyed, curly haired, African babies. And boy, the world was a &#8220;darker&#8221; place. The <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">blessings <em>and<\/em> challenges<\/span> of having brown skin have become acutely aware to me. In some ways, I think I see them more clearly because I know how I am treated as a white lady and I see the differences. I&#8217;ve been forever changed. My heart, my desire for equality, my empathy, perspective, and world view has grown ten fold. Since becoming a mother, I&#8217;ve changed dramatically. I&#8217;ve been lucky during this time to have many friends who give me grace and have mothered me! They are heroes for my children both close and far! I am so grateful for all the African American trailblazers! The Obamas being one of them!<\/p>\n<p>Diversity is important. Not just for the disenfranchised, but for all! We all need to experience life from a new view to become all who God meant us to be!<\/p>\n<p>In 2013, I was paid to do the save the dates and the invitation suite for Granny Sarah Obama&#8217;s Birthday Celebration for the Mama Sarah Obama Foundation! It has nothing to do with why I love the Obamas of course. But it seemed fitting to include the photo for Throw Back Thursday!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-20199\" src=\"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/08-20175-post\/LoraleeLewisSignatureGold3.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"376\" data-nopin=\"nopin\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I cried when my kids went back to school this week (I was going holiday stir crazy, but then bawled when they went back!) and I teared up again during the President&#8217;s Farewell. I know everyone has different opinions, and feels this way and that about immigration, healthcare, etc. but that aside &#8211; Friends, \u00a0I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":17997,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1024,1035],"tags":[1155,1974,1872,1871,1975,1865],"class_list":["post-19988","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-inspiration-and-life-lessons","category-invitation-collections","tag-adoption","tag-loralee","tag-obama","tag-president","tag-racism","tag-wedding"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19988","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19988"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19988\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17997"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19988"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19988"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19988"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}