{"id":13000,"date":"2010-07-08T17:47:00","date_gmt":"2010-07-08T21:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/?p=13000"},"modified":"2012-05-11T18:12:56","modified_gmt":"2012-05-11T22:12:56","slug":"happy-birthday-mr-boston","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/happy-birthday-mr-boston\/","title":{"rendered":"Happy Birthday, Mr. Boston!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"text-align: center;\">It was one year ago, on July 5th, our sweet Boston was born. I remember the day brilliantly. It was around three in the afternoon, the day after Fourth of July. Out of nowhere we got the phone call, our baby had arrived!&nbsp; Up until this point, we didn&#8217;t know if&nbsp;we were having&nbsp;a boy or a girl!&nbsp; I would have sworn on my own grave that we were getting a girl. I had even washed and pressed all Vienna&#8217;s newborn outfits.&nbsp; Ethan and Lee kept&nbsp;telling me&nbsp;it&nbsp;was for sure going to be a boy.&nbsp; <\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_OxFi9LaSt_o\/TDOpWjAA4EI\/AAAAAAAAF58\/xcUD1ub7EzM\/s1600\/42a.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"400\" rw=\"true\" src=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_OxFi9LaSt_o\/TDOpWjAA4EI\/AAAAAAAAF58\/xcUD1ub7EzM\/s400\/42a.jpg\" width=\"267\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">I have never been so happy to be wrong&#8230;and Lee right!<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_OxFi9LaSt_o\/TDOplb8CGwI\/AAAAAAAAF6E\/7TCyueW8op0\/s1600\/44a.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"400\" rw=\"true\" src=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_OxFi9LaSt_o\/TDOplb8CGwI\/AAAAAAAAF6E\/7TCyueW8op0\/s400\/44a.jpg\" width=\"267\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">Our beautiful birthmother called and said, &#8220;<em>You&#8217;ve got a little boy!&#8221;<\/em><\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">&#8220;<em>He is here waiting for you!&#8221;<\/em><\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_OxFi9LaSt_o\/TDOqLIM41gI\/AAAAAAAAF6M\/Yf2cSA_hQn8\/s1600\/108a.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"400\" rw=\"true\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_OxFi9LaSt_o\/TDOqLIM41gI\/AAAAAAAAF6M\/Yf2cSA_hQn8\/s400\/108a.jpg\" width=\"267\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">I don&#8217;t think Lee and I have ever got into a car so fast!<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">In just 20 short minutes, we were at the Hospital.&nbsp; Naturally, I fell completely a part in the car.&nbsp; I was overjoyed and a mess!&nbsp; Mascara nearly everywhere.&nbsp; Our little boy had arrived.&nbsp; <em>Oh my goodness<\/em>.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">I do&nbsp;not pretend to&nbsp;hold the talent to&nbsp;describe the feelings a mother has before meeting her child for the first&nbsp;time. It is indescribable.&nbsp; Your heart is overjoyed and fluttery and anxious, but you are filled with an immense&nbsp;peace as well.&nbsp; You could break into tears at any moment, you feel fragile and strong at the same exact time&#8230; and oh-so proud.&nbsp;&nbsp; <em>Here is your son.&nbsp;&nbsp; Here is your tiny child that&nbsp;God has&nbsp;appointed you.&nbsp; How could you be entrusted with&nbsp;such tiny perfection?&nbsp;&nbsp;When&nbsp;could you have done anything to deserve this?<\/em>&nbsp; And then there is also that vote of confidence from Heaven&nbsp;you feel&nbsp;which&nbsp;moves your heart&nbsp;towards&nbsp;action of being more than you are &#8211;&nbsp;to rise to the occasion of being in the presence and raising this spirit.&nbsp; I cannot describe it &#8211; but it is wonderful.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_OxFi9LaSt_o\/TDOqk6Kx1qI\/AAAAAAAAF6U\/tRZUDRwiKQY\/s1600\/120a.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"267\" rw=\"true\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_OxFi9LaSt_o\/TDOqk6Kx1qI\/AAAAAAAAF6U\/tRZUDRwiKQY\/s400\/120a.jpg\" width=\"400\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\">There was some drama at the hospital.&nbsp; They wouldn&#8217;t let us see our baby boy &#8211; even though the birthmother was telling the staff that&nbsp;she wanted us bonding with the&nbsp;baby from that moment on. &nbsp; It was a Sunday.&nbsp; Sundays for adoptive parents at hospitals are the opposite of heaven.&nbsp; Social workers aren&#8217;t on call.&nbsp; Red tape is everywhere. &nbsp;They turned us away at the hospital.&nbsp; They told us to go home and maybe tomorrow if&nbsp;the social worker showed up &#8211; we could see our baby.&nbsp;&nbsp;They didn&#8217;t really realize who they were talking to. This wasn&#8217;t my first rodeo!&nbsp; &nbsp;My baby&nbsp;was in that hospital and needing to be with his mommy!!!&nbsp; Paperwork had been signed.&nbsp; Needless to say, sixty minutes and a few heated calls later &#8211; Lee and I were&nbsp;scrubbing in to enter&nbsp;the nursery.&nbsp;&nbsp; The hospital staff was apologetic and adorable. <\/div>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_OxFi9LaSt_o\/TDOq7JTITZI\/AAAAAAAAF6c\/bZcly_woY54\/s1600\/122a.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"400\" rw=\"true\" src=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_OxFi9LaSt_o\/TDOq7JTITZI\/AAAAAAAAF6c\/bZcly_woY54\/s400\/122a.jpg\" width=\"267\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">I walked into the nursery and my breath was taken away.&nbsp; There under a heated lamp with only a tiny white diaper on was the most beautiful little baby boy I had ever seen.&nbsp; I asked the nurse if I could touch him.&nbsp; She said, yes.&nbsp;&nbsp;As I placed my hand on&nbsp;this little newborn back, the most perfect peace came over my soul.&nbsp;&nbsp;It was a stillness that quieted and slowed the pace of every breath.&nbsp; It was at this moment that I knew God was telling me who this little boy was and what he would later become.&nbsp; He wasn&#8217;t any one&#8217;s little boy &#8211; he was mine &#8211; and I was privileged to have him. God answers our deepest prayers in the most profound quiet ways.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">A year later, we couldn&#8217;t be more in love.&nbsp; Boston is so much more than we could have ever wanted.&nbsp; His superb personality has delighted us to the core and continues to do so daily.&nbsp; Something I can honestly say about Big B (and all my children) is that I know God must love me because He gave me him. <\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">God trusts us so much more than we know.&nbsp;&nbsp; He sees so much more in us than we allow ourselves to believe.&nbsp; He beckons the best out of us&nbsp;even as we&nbsp;fearfully step forward. And just like our Boston, He truly gives us more than we deserve.&nbsp; I&#8217;m so grateful to a God who would give me such a beautiful gift as Boston. <\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: right;\">Happy Birthday B!&nbsp; We love you,<\/div>\n<div align=\"right\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mylivesignature.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/signatures.mylivesignature.com\/54487\/213\/1B769B0C9152F3A8AEB6C0B8BFF46123.png\" style=\"background: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px;\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It was one year ago, on July 5th, our sweet Boston was born. I remember the day brilliantly. It was around three in the afternoon, the day after Fourth of July. Out of nowhere we got the phone call, our baby had arrived!&nbsp; Up until this point, we didn&#8217;t know if&nbsp;we were having&nbsp;a boy or [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1018,1027,1034,1052],"tags":[1156,1200],"class_list":["post-13000","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-adoption-catharsis","category-birthdays","category-lewis-family-2","category-tutorialsrecipes","tag-children","tag-family"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13000","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13000"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13000\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13000"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13000"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.loraleelewis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13000"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}